So now in addition to “a woman without kids has no worth”, I keep repeatedly seeing men say “If you don’t have kids, you can’t care about your race, or culture, or it’s future because you have no vested interest.”
I’m sorry, but I find this personally offensive. I’m quite sure that it’s not humanly possible to care more than I do. Maybe certain people, less intelligent, more shallow, self-absorbed types are incapable about caring about something unless it affects them personally. But, I am quite capable of wanting to work my arse off for the future of my nieces and nephews and for all the other children of the Folk, despite not having any myself.
I don’t mean to undermine the importance of White people having families today at all. But let’s be real here, anyone can be impregnated. It’s very easy to do. Finding a good mate who will be loyal, and stable, and a provider, etc, etc, that part is less easy.
Sometimes it seems like people who literally have nothing else going for them, no talents, no achievements, nothing to make them feel good about themselves, are now using their biological reproduction as something to lord over others and make themselves feel superior.
Now all of the sudden these young Millennial men come along ,and because they are having trouble finding a girl who wants their babies at age 18-22, they’re directing their frustration at us older single women in our 30s, assuming we CHOSE this because we’re militant feminist career women.
It’s really fucking hurtful to be a woman who DID want kids and marriage through my entire 20s, and then to be verbally attacked and called “old and dried up” because I couldn’t find a decent guy who wanted it.
The one who did want it turned out to be a huge disappointment, depressive, pathetic, lazy, and a thief! But, hey, all my fault. Me and my dried up withered old uterus.
Newsflash: A lot of people who don’t have kids did not end up this way because of a conscious choice! Or sometimes choices are informed by personal things that are nobody’s business! GET OVER IT!