Breastfeeding is The Most Selfish Thing You Can Do!

Normally the reasons given to breastfeed in the western world is all about the baby and how good it is for them. Which is good and great, and I totally agree, but we are all being taught to be selfish, so…from this stance…

What isn’t so much discussed is how good it is for mum, and when I tell you why, you make think I am crazy.

It is good, because you have no time for yourself.

Your house can get into a proper shithole.

Your laundry can pile up and you have to wear clothes that are covered in porridge.

Your hair could do with a good wash.

You have a few tantrums, more than a few.

You resent your partner for not being the female and getting luxuries like hot meals and Internet time.

Your back aches, neck is sore and shoulders freeze up.

Your baby is clingier than other people’s babies, because you are their food, sometimes you cannot put them down.

So how is this good, you say?

Because you learn some very valuable lessons, like how to not be spoilt, how to deal with jealousy, how to let go of things that you deem important, your vanity is massively reduced.

You learn to control your bad behaviours, and you learn how to surrender yourself to something more important than you, the future.

In other words you get one of the most beautiful gifts you can ever receive, you learn to grow up.

In today’s narcissistic world we are trained to avoid responsibilities. Why?

Because they are delicious.

Could you imagine if we were all full of pride and self-reliance?

Having a skillset, of patience, strength, perseverance, discipline and honour. How different our nations may be.

Breastfeeding is a tough part of our creation, in the past we held each other’s hands through this tough stuff, but today our community is lost. A breastfeeding mom today is worthy of admiration at the highest esteem, because she is going it alone.

And although there are many long lasting psychological benefits to breastfeeding, sometimes in the midst of it there can be psychological unrest. Luckily holding and feeding your baby/babies as you melt into one little pot of love in each other’s arms can balance out the momentary feelings of hardship.

If you are comfortable with a mum who breastfeeds, let her know how awesome she is, and ask if you can do anything to help, and when I say anything, I mean, mop floors and shine mirrors.  Take her a hot meal and play with her baby whilst she eats.

Treat her like she is one of the women bringing forth a generation that will ring in the old, because she is.

So go ahead, Breastfeed, be selfish, it really is the best thing you can do for you.breatfeeding rocks

 

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11 thoughts on “Breastfeeding is The Most Selfish Thing You Can Do!

  1. This is awesome! My 2 year old just weaned a day or so ago. I was telling him that boo boo was “broken” in the middle of the night because i wasn’t getting good sleep while he was nursing through the night and he just accepts it now and rolls back over and goes to sleep! He rarely, if ever, asks for it during the day now. I am so happy that he was made this decision himself and it wasn’t some kind of traumatic ending to our nursing relationship. I cherish those memories so fondly and am anticipating a new breastfeeding relationship with our second child that will come whenever he/she is ready. Great article!

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    1. Make sure you get some rest, as you stop feeding, your boobs will hurt and you will get a bit emotional as you stop producing, a bit hormonal, also the unused milk gets identified as a foreign body and will stimulate a flu kind of feeling, so it can be a bit sucky. Your diet is good though so I am sure you will do fine. Well done for being such a great breastfeeding mum 😀
      Apologies if you knew all of this.

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      1. Thank you! Luckily I’ve only got one boob to deal with, since he refused the left one since about 6 months old hahaha. I was really engorged for the first two days but it seems to have gone down and luckily no flu symptoms.

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    2. Motherhood is the greatest thing a woman can experience. We in India worship women as mothers and goddesses (Saraswati is the goddess of learning in our culture). Remain close to nature, eat organic food and get good sleep. God bless!

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    3. Motherhood is the greatest thing a woman can experience. In our Indian culture, we worship women as mothers and goddesses. It is hard to find down to earth and traditional women these days. God bless you mam! 🙂

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  2. Great Article I agree, missing in the throes of modernity is the ‘Frith, Family, Folk’ aspect of what should be considered ‘Normal~Beautiful’ instead The Abrahamic Cults have sexualized, hyper-sexualized and perverted The Good. Our women are Sacred Vessels, Our Men need to get back to that Pre-Christian Ideal.

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    1. Ure talking exactly out of ur ass. Abrahamic religions have been trying their best to supress sex and everything related to it as far as sheeple are concerned. Control sexuality, control ppl, capisci?

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      1. History, Language 101:
        For example, Prior to The Christian invasion:
        “On the issue of nudity and the female. In The Frith the female is held in a Naturalist-Sacred ideal. For this reason her modesty and honour were fiercely protected as expressed in clothing. Now, it is known that my female ancestors would in extremely hot conditions while working in the fields remove their tops and that families would bathe in lakes, streams under waterfalls together. There was no degenerate sexualization of this until the invasion of the Abrahamic Cults, Christianity in particular then, Islam in Europe now. Any nudity was practical and not public, among the immediate family-kinfolk in the strictest terms and anyone who violated this decency was dealt with swiftly, harshly.”

        So there you have it, I stand correct, Christianity, The Abrahamic Cults have and DO Hyper-Sexualize everything, even breastfeeding, to destroy it. Hell, if there was one, they promote hyper-sexulaization-degeneracy throughout all of Western Society to Kill it. (Hello, Miley Cyrus?)

        In the future before attacking people and calling them names, it would behove you to hone up your Linguistic Set, understanding of Language.

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  3. How about some decency while breastfeeding? I miss the good old days when there was decency even in that, now libtardism owns most minds so no wonder breeders expose themselves shamelessly with the fake pretext they do it for their child. Sex and other things are natural too, so why shouldnt we do it in public, ha? Holy hypocrisy and retardation!

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    1. How about not being a pervert and sexualizing breastfeeding? Thanks! Equating sex to feeding a baby is retarded and shows how twisted your mind is. “Breeders”? Are you a homosexual or something? Why are you on a site for Heathen women? Your input is not wanted. Buh bye!

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